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About

I have been a licensed Wedding Officiant for the Province of Ontario since 2008 and have had the honour of solemnizing hundreds of marriages. As a humanist officiant, I provide a meaningful, non-religious, celebration of two people’s commitment to their love for each other. I offer as much or as little guidance as you need to ensure that your ceremony reflects who you are as individuals and as a couple and honours the people who have come to support your important decision to join your lives.

Services offered

Your wedding ceremony is one of the most important parts of your wedding day and it should be the one element of your day that is all about the two of you.

My goal is to provide you with exactly the type of ceremony that you have envisioned. Whether it is ‘short and sweet’, a customized ceremony with personalized elements - or a combination of the 2, I am here to make your vision become a reality!

Regardless of the style you have planned, I am happy to speak/zoom/FaceTime with you at a mutually convenient time before you book.

My service includes:

Sample ceremonies - which you can personalize as you wish, cut/paste, find things on-line, ask me for input and resources (no religious content please) I have attached one for your review.
A planning meeting before the wedding - this isn't usually necessary if we have already met - it's up to you.
Unlimited email access with any questions, concerns regarding details etc. (you can phone me too but I find it best to have a written record of what we have discussed).

Please note I don't have a paid account and as such will not be notified if you contact me through this site.


Other services

I offer officiant services for more than just weddings.

  • Funerals
  • Memorials
  • Baby namings

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Frequently asked questions

What types of weddings and events do you provide services for?

Civil union
Interfaith ceremony
Non-religious
Vow renewal
Ceremony rehearsal

What services do you provide?

Licensed
Allow couple' own vows

What religious affiliations do you serve?

Agnostic
No denomination

On average, how long are wedding ceremonies you officiate?

Less than 30 mins.

What is the starting price for your wedding services?

$250

Does starting price include the ceremony rehearsal?

No

What is the starting price for ceremony rehearsals?

$100

If you offer pre-marital counseling, what is the starting price for (per session)?

$16

Reviews for Sarahmonies

Jorge
Jorge Sent on 09/05/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Fantastic officiant!

Sarah officiated our wedding at Hart House and did an incredible job! From beautifully delivered words that she was heavily involved in preparing for the ceremony, to leading us through it, to fixing up my boutonniere right before the start of things while telling great stories of her experiences getting other people married, it was wonderful that she was a part of our special day.

We clicked immediately over the first call we had and we knew she was the perfect fit for us right from the get-go. Would highly recommend her to anyone getting married and looking for a non-religious officiant.
Emily
Emily Sent on 10/10/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Wedding officiant

We recently had Sarah as our officiant and she was absolutely wonderful! We found her online pretty last minute and she was very responsive and accommodating! The ceremony was wonderful and our guests all had great things to say about her! Would recommend her to anyone looking for an officiant, she makes you feel like you’re not a complete stranger as she’s very engaged in the moment.
Avi
Avi Sent on 09/09/2025
5 out of 5 rating

A truly wonderful officiant who made our day special

We came across Sarah’s website while searching online and decided to give her a call. From that first conversation she was warm, reassuring, and genuinely interested in what we wanted for our day.

She guided us through every step with patience and care, from the paperwork to the vows to writing a beautiful script that reflected us as a couple. She made the whole process simple and stress free, which allowed us to really enjoy the moment.

On the day of the ceremony she brought the perfect balance of calm, warmth, and presence. The words she spoke and the way she led us through everything made it feel deeply personal and meaningful.

Our small wedding turned out more beautiful than we imagined and Sarah played a big role in that. We will always be grateful to her and would wholeheartedly recommend her to anyone looking for an officiant who truly cares.

With gratitude, Zehra & Avi
Alexandra
Alexandra Sent on 29/06/2025
5 out of 5 rating

A Warm, Grounded, and Truly Special Officiant

Sarah was such a gift to our wedding experience. From the very first meeting, we knew she’d be a perfect fit — she was warm, supportive, and genuinely excited to help us craft a ceremony that felt meaningful and true to us. At a time when we felt a bit unsure about how to approach the ceremony, Sarah brought both clarity and comfort.

She was proactive and professional, sending us multiple options to review in advance and being incredibly clear and flexible throughout the process. On the day itself, she braved some wild, windy weather during our outdoor ceremony without skipping a beat — calm, collected, and fully present.

Sarah came highly recommended to us by friends, and we’re so happy to pass that recommendation forward. If you’re looking for someone who brings warmth, professionalism, and heart to your ceremony, Sarah is everything you’d hope for in an officiant.

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Riley Sent on 30/10/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Joanna + Riley wedding

Sarah was a great officiant. Not only was she well organized, keeping us on track, and answering any questions we had along the way . But she was great on the day of our wedding and she really made our ceremony come to life. I highly recommend Sarah!!
Jack
Jack Sent on 22/10/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Attentive and endearing

Sarah gave a beautiful wedding ceremony. She was helpful throughout the entire process, helping with writing the ceremony itself, and was very attentive to our unique needs as an interfaith couple. She also came prepared with extra pens for the signing of the license on stage, which came in handy since our fancy pen was run over by a vehicle.
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Raisa Sent on 04/08/2022
5 out of 5 rating

Fabulous Ceremony

Couldn't have asked for a better officiant. The amount of communication leading up to the date was above and beyond our expectations, the script was lovely, she kept it strictly nondenominational.
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Cyn F. Sent on 23/07/2022
5 out of 5 rating

"Officially" the best officiant

Sarah was extremely professional and committed to our day 120%. She was very prompt, set up necessary video calls and got us prepared for our special day well in advance. Very friendly, approachable and detail oriented. We would highly recommend Sarahmonies to officiate your special day!
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Emily Sent on 21/07/2022
4.8 out of 5 rating

Great personality and extremely professional

Sarah was great at guiding us through the process. We had a somewhat complex ceremony with variables like a dog, different kind of layout and a song choice that had a specific timing we were looking for. Sarah was super responsive (one of the quickest response times out of all my vendors) and was so patient in giving us different recommendations and helping us achieve our vision. It helped that she also had example ceremony scripts that you can take as is or as inspiration. Would highly recommend her services!
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Paul Sent on 14/06/2022
5 out of 5 rating

Excellent experience -- highly recommended

We had a terrific experience with Sarah Boyer Messenger. She was easy to work with—highly responsible and thoughtful and supportive. And the ceremony itself was great.
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