Disorganized, Messy, and Disastrous
To say that I am disappointed is an understatement.
We booked our wedding with the Event Sales Manager, Wesely, in 2023 for our wedding in September 2024 and were ecstatic as we fell in love with the venue from the photos, and even more so when we saw it in person. I went to the site visit with my mom and mother-in-law, and we all connected with Wesely right off the bat. She was very knowledgeable during the tour, taking in our ideas and helping us envision my wedding here. One of my biggest concerns was that fact that I was not going to have a Wedding Planner, however after meeting Wesely, I was not concerned at all as she was very experienced. Not only did I have lots of questions, but when my vendors had questions as well, I would send them to Wesely and she gladly answered their questions too. I admit that I was probably not an easy bride to work with, but not once did Wesely make me feel like my requests and questions were unreasonable.
The menu tastings we went to, was our first experience with the other staff at Hycroft aside from Wesely, and we felt more at ease as everyone was warm, friendly, and professional. David, the Food & Beverage Manager, checked in with us throughout the evening, Wesely walked us through the logistics of dinner service and other questions we had. Our Servers Alyssa, Ken, Owen, and Jennifer, were amazing – We were very well taken care of, and it felt good to know these were the people that will handle our wedding as you could tell everyone worked really well together. The Chef, Mariana, also came to our table. She was very nice and accommodating as there were some things we wanted to change on the plate and said it was not a problem (These points are important for context).
Everything was truly very easy and stress-free, until it wasn’t. In June, I received an email from Wesely regarding her departure; my fiancé and I were devastated as we loved working with Wesely. Before she left, I asked if she could ensure all the details we discussed would be passed onto the person that replaced her, and she sent us the notes that she had jotted down in their system; very detailed and easy to follow. However, Hycroft did not have a replacement for Wesely, and weeks went by without any communication from their end. We tried to speak to the office lady during the week to figure out what was going on, but when we got to the venue in person, we were stopped by rude members that would not let us enter the parking lot because we were not members. We explained to them that we had a wedding booked and wanted to speak to someone in person because we were not getting a response; they told us to reach out to Wesely and not to come to the club without permission. They were very hostile, so we left but it was very bizarre to us as they were members of Hycroft, but did not know their Events Manager left. We later received an email from Nicola, the new Events Manager, a month after Wesely left and we learned that David had also left a few weeks after Wesely.
We became hesitant because Nicola was not as responsive and often times was confused. We made changes to our plated menu, with approval from Chef Marianna, and was also noted per Wesely’s notes. However, Nicola did not know what we were talking about and when she asked Chef Mariana, she claimed to not know either and that we were not allowed to make the changes we wanted anymore. We took the high road and left it but looking back, we should have advocated more as the food on the day of the wedding was not anything remotely the same as what we tried at the tasting. They increased the price as Chef Mariana said the quality would be better, but the portions were a lot smaller, the food was not good, and some guests did not even get a meal and were told not enough food was prepped, even though we pre-ordered everything and submitted our numbers 1 month prior. We also wanted the risotto as our vegetarian option, but Chef Mariana did not allow us to choose that option because she did not want to make it for 100 people – these were her words; why have it on a menu in the first place?! When my mother tried to speak to the Chef Mariana about the guests that did not receive a meal, we learned that she did not even bother to show up. The person in the kitchen told my mother she did not want to talk to her, which is absurd. We also submitted a dietary list that was not followed, and Nicola blamed our guests for switching seats. This was not true as guests sat where they were supposed to, and she was not able to argue otherwise as she was not present on the day. There was no one from Hycroft’s end that was in charge during the wedding and we had very inexperienced staff who did not know what they were doing. We were told that the staff we met at the tasting all quit after Wesely and David. We tried to be understandable, however it was just a disaster and frustrating to deal with all of these issues on our wedding day. To not have the Events Manager or the Chef there to manage things and then blaming us and our wedding for their faults… very unprofessional.
Although a very beautiful venue indeed, I hope all future brides consider the lack of organization and professionalism from Hycroft and go elsewhere that is less stressful and disastrous.