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On WeddingWire since 2024

Last update: November 2025

Congratulations — you’re getting married!

And now… let’s plan your ceremony.

Whether you imagine something:

  • Deeply personal, intimate & unique

  • Spiritual, with tenderness & emotional depth

  • Light-hearted, playful & full of laughter

  • Or a wildly romantic adventure elopement for just the two of you

…we’ll bring it to life in a way that feels true to you.

As a licensed Wedding Officiant, seasoned speaker, and ceremony specialist, I collaborate closely with you (and your wedding team) to craft a celebration that honors your story, reflects your values, and feels unforgettable for everyone present.

Your relationship is extraordinary — your ceremony should be too.

Let’s create Your Connection for Life.

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Rev Shelley J Grant: Connection for Life Ceremonies

Serving Comox Valley & Vancouver Island (Mexico during winter months)

www.connectionforlife.com

yourconnectionforlife@gmail.com

Frequently asked questions

What types of weddings and events do you provide services for?

Civil union
Single religion
Interfaith ceremony
Non-religious
Vow renewal
Ceremony rehearsal

What services do you provide?

Licensed
Allow couple' own vows
Premarital counseling

What religious affiliations do you serve?

Agnostic
Buddhist
Anglican
Baptist
No denomination
Earth-based
Evangelical
Pagan
Taoist
Unitarian

On average, how long are wedding ceremonies you officiate?

Less than 30 mins.

What is the starting price for your wedding services?

$300

Does starting price include the ceremony rehearsal?

No

What is the starting price for ceremony rehearsals?

$125

If you offer pre-marital counseling, what is the starting price for (per session)?

$90
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Any other questions?

Reviews for Connection for Life

Kaely
Kaely Sent on 30/10/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Absolutely exceptional at every moment - couldn't recommend Shelley more!

We had the absolute pleasure of having Shelley officiate our wedding, and we truly could not imagine anyone better for the role. From the very beginning, she was warm, professional, and so genuinely invested in making our ceremony meaningful and personal. She has this vibrant energy that puts you at ease right away, while also being incredibly organized and thoughtful.

One thing we especially appreciated was her attention to detail. Shelley didn’t just help us plan the ceremony — she helped us think through moments and logistics for the rest of the day, too, which made such a difference. She walked us through everything clearly, offered guidance we didn’t even know we needed, and made sure we felt confident and supported heading into our wedding day.

On the day itself, Shelley went above and beyond. She checked in with us throughout the morning, made sure we were feeling grounded and present, and helped calm those pre-ceremony nerves in the most genuine and caring way. It meant so much to have her there not only as an officiant, but as someone truly rooting for us.

The ceremony she created was perfect — heartfelt, personal, emotional, and very “us.” It felt so intentional and authentic, and we had so many guests tell us afterward how beautiful and unique it was.

We are so grateful for Shelley and couldn’t recommend her more. If you’re looking for someone who truly cares and will help make your ceremony unforgettable, she is exceptional.
Lauren
Lauren Sent on 29/09/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Excellent Officiant!

Shelley is truly an incredible officiant. I found Shelley on Wedding Wire when I was desperate searching for an officiant a couple months prior to the wedding. We planned our Comox Valley wedding from Ontario so we didn't have the chance to meet anyone in person prior to the date. This made me a little bit stressed on how everything would go with selecting an officiant. Having Shelley be a part of this process made everything so easy and thought out. She really is amazing with words and wrote the most beautiful, thoughtful, and personal ceremony for us. She was able to meet with us over zoom a couple times leading up to the wedding and these meetings gave us a sense of peace on how the ceremony would run on wedding day. Shelley listened to everything we wanted and was helpful every step of the way. Josh and I truly can't thank you enough Shelley!
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Iain Sent on 25/08/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Shelley Made Our Day Truly Special

We loved the way Shelley told our story — the ceremony was touching and filled with love. Working with her was easy and rewarding; she was well organized, open to our ideas, and truly took the time to get to know us. Her communication was amazing, and she made us feel supported every step of the way.

Our guests gave us so many compliments about the ceremony and the role Shelley played in it. We couldn’t recommend her more to any couple looking for someone to create a heartfelt, memorable ceremony.
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Victoria Sent on 19/07/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Highly recommend!

Rev. Shelley Grant exceeded our expectations as our officiant. Her peaceful presence combined with her organized approach was simply invaluable. We were honoured to have her apart of our special day. She was quick and helpful with questions we had along the way, proactive in the preparation bringing up important items to address that we hadn’t thought of, she ran the rehearsal like a boss, and we felt like family on the day of. She left us with such a special sentimental keepsake. We could go on and on about how wonderful we think she is! Thank you Shelley!
Anna
Anna Sent on 30/06/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Thank you.

Rev Shelley exceeded any and all expectations we had for our ceremony. Right from the beginning she was so kind and passionate about making our day the best day possible. She truly captured our love story better than we ever thought possible. Every single attendee raved about the ceremony and how it was the best ceremony they had ever attended. Shelley not only captured our love story beautifully but also wove in our Celtic and Ukrainian backgrounds through hand fastening and the rushnyk. She took the time to research about the rushnyk and its purpose as a ceremonial tradition from Ukrainian culture. We cannot thank her enough for making our ceremony as breathtaking as it was. We will forever remember our wedding day as perfect because of her.
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Frank Sent on 10/06/2025
5 out of 5 rating

absolutley fantastic....

we couldnt be more impressed and happy with Rev Shelley. the best decision ever made was having her at our wedding...professional and calming and so easy to work with. The Best....highly recommend
Terry
Terry Sent on 09/06/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Our West Coast Wedding

We will forever remember Rev. Shelley for officiating our intimate wedding ceremony and making it such a memorable day in our lives. Her ability to seamlessly orchestrate the many moving parts brought a sense of serenity as we exchanged vows and "the world just slipped away and there was just the two of us". We appreciate that Rev. Shelley memorialized our love story in the beautiful record of our wedding ceremony, which we will cherish for years to come.

Marie and Terry.
Shirley
Shirley Sent on 02/12/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Shelley made our wedding ceremony more beautiful than we could have ever imagined!

Shelley’s warmth, professionalism, and attention to detail helped transform our wedding ceremony into something truly special and memorable. We received so many compliments from our guests about how personal and heartfelt our ceremony was. Shelley has a unique set of skills that allow her to thrive in this role. She has a calming and inviting presence, which is so grounding for both clients and guests. She was a dream to work with, and we couldn’t recommend her more for any special day.
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Jeremy Sent on 26/11/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Our wedding

From our first meeting, Shelley had a certain presence about her that is hard to describe, but made us feel at ease. We liked her energy and had a good connection with her, and we knew right away that she was the perfect fit for performing our wedding ceremony. We decided to go with the complete connection package, and we were very happy with everything Shelley had to offer us with the planning of our ceremony, and her assistance with writing our vows. Shelley was very good at communicating with us, and had a thoughtful and personal approach to preparing our ceremony. For us, the ceremony was the most important part of our wedding, and looking back on our day, it was also our favourite part. Shelley did an excellent job at telling our love story, and it showed that she put a lot of time and thought into making our ceremony unique to us. The details that Shelley included in the ceremony as well as her delivery were so special, not only to us, but also to our guests, and we have had many of them approach us to tell us how amazing Shelley was and how beautiful the ceremony was. Our wedding was the most perfect, unforgettable day, and we attribute part of that to Shelley and the beautiful ceremony she performed. We would recommend Shelley to anyone looking for an officiant that will deliver a passionate and unique ceremony that will only improve your special day.
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Rev Shelley Grant
Rev Shelley Grant
Celebrant / Wedding Officiant

As a Celebrant, I celebrate love. I celebrate what unites you as a couple in marriage, and as sovereign individuals choosing one another in love. I celebrate with you, for you, and honour your choosing - in love, truth and enduring connection.

My title of Revered speaks to a spiritual faith - minus any religious dogma. With it comes the freedom to express your beliefs in whatever ways are meaningful to you. This may be to simply hold the purity of love, respect and commitment as you choose each other in marriage.

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