Deceptive, Dishonest, Left Until The Last Minute, Unprofessional & Disorganized.
In the review written by David Jang, you can get a complete, chronological series of events from the planning of to the post-wedding shenanigans.
It’s funny how the Villa picks & chooses on what they respond to and completely disregard the facts of intentional acts of deceit & dishonesty.
2 weeks post-wedding - before David’s review was posted - we scheduled a call with one of our initial contacts throughout this whole process. Since Sunny was removed from the event and was not present during the later phases of the wedding, we thought we might be able to get a more humane, compassionate response from him. The conversation was strictly out of courtesy, as we felt that he has the right to know what is going on in his business and how his customers are being mistreated in his absence, because truly, at this point, there was nothing the Villa can offer us that could make our experience better. Still, we had hoped that he would attempt to restore our faith in them by at least trying. He didn’t.
Our conversation with Sunny was full of “I apologize for your experience” & “They should not be speaking with the customers like that”, but it ended there. No offers of returning our money for the items & services that we paid for but didn’t receive, no offers of compensation for the unnecessary stress & emotional trauma they caused, not even an apology from the individuals who made their most valiant efforts in trying to make the best day of our lives, the worst.
To save you from having to read all the gory details again, my review is going to be based on the facts that appalled me most; from the POV of a Bridezilla:
1. The menu tasting & food selection was delayed by the completion of the building; from Dec, to Jan, to Mar, then May, and finally when the date and time was scheduled (more efforts required on our part to coordinate since my then-fiancé lived out of town), we were rescheduled multiple times. First for game 7 of the Oilers game - but we get it, the Oilers made it that far! We’ve waited this long, and postponing our tasting to the next week for the last game of the Stanley Cup Finals isn’t something we were upset about. What was upsetting is the dishonesty in the correspondence. Instead of telling us up front that they cannot be working our 4pm tasting because they have to prepare for a watch party, they made it about us. “We want to be able to spend more time with our couples. Let’s move the tasting to Canada Day, so our couples won’t have to be rushed, since most people don’t work that day.” The bridezilla that I am stated my concern for him and his staff having to work on a stat. “Are you sure you want to work on Canada Day?”, I said. To which Sunny responded, “Absolutely.” Sunday evening I receive another call from a Villa team member, rescheduling our tasting yet again; informing me that they cannot get food delivered on a holiday, but not to worry, “your event is so far away”; we are just over 30 days from DDay. This is the first of many occasions where I am smacked in the face with the disorganization & lack of professionalism demonstrated by the Villa.
2. The designated Decor Company - Bash Decors, was a delight from the start. From 2-3 reschedules/failed attempts before we could even connect for the initial “consultation” call, to sending the quote to the “wrong Jenny” with lack of f/u, to leaving the design finalization to 5 days before our wedding, it is clear to me why the Decor company had to be designated; if I had a choice, I would not have chosen to have “a Bash event”. Throughout the 10 months of planning, I would send messages (often unanswered), and initiate calls to try and get on top of this planning, so as not to be slammed in the last couple weeks before the wedding, as many had warned us of. All the calls were dismissed with Tina’s reassurance. On the Sunday before our wedding, I finally received the updated invoice. Tina calls me on Monday and informs me that I have to get all the designs to her for the seating chart panel & the shadow box that night, oh, and don’t forget to pay the invoice. The seating chart is something we brought up last minute, so fine, I will do all the design & formatting and send you the ready to print file within the next 8hrs. But the Shadow Box- one of the elements I was most excited about- was decided on months ago, yet this is the first conversation we are having about what I want on it. 4days before the wedding. And I am now being told what I want cannot be done because “it has a separate cost, and we don’t have time to do that now.” In retrospect, I should have cancelled it and saved myself $2000. Hours before the ceremony, we see them setting up the Shadow Box and putting on the letters on the plexiglass. At the time, only 2 lines had been done, but it was like whomever stickering these words did not read English, as there were no spaces, so 3 words were combined to 1, and the line was crooked. I pointed it out, and asked for them to fix it. To which they agreed. At some point during the reception, I finally noticed that, not only was the first crooked, one-worded line not fixed, the following lines were all mostly crooked as well.
3. We had decided early on that we would not require a DJ for the ceremony, and we had confirmed with Sunny that we can use their sound system to play our 3-4 songs for walking down the aisle. The day before the wedding, the GM/AV company (Divinity DJs) owner tried to tell us that there would have been an additional fee to use their system, and since this was not part of our contract, we cannot. He quickly went back on this when we said that that is not what Sunny agreed to. Begrudgingly, Sam somehow managed to get the AV system set up on the patio minutes before our 3pm ceremony. Due to the time constraints, our videographer was only able to do one soundcheck, and the mic worked. However, we found later, that although the mic worked, it did not record any of the sound during our ceremony. Not the music, not the vows, not the crying, or the laughter. This is a moment we will not get back, all due to the lack of care and competence by Divinity DJs and The Villa.
4. You’ve already heard about the food in David’s post, but the juicy steak cooked to perfection that we had at the tasting was substituted with roast beef. The seafood linguini with palm-sized prawns was replaced with foodcourt-style chowmein, which was insulting to my Chinese family. Since the staff plated the food for the head table, we were not even aware of the noodle situation. All I knew was that I only had a few bites of the mashed potatoes that night, because we did not have any other carbs on our plates. Why did the Villa deliberately not give us any of the chowmein, if not intentional deceit, since they are clearly aware they had substituted our selections with obviously lower grade dishes.
Again, sparing you the repetition and gory details, but the mistreatment and unprofessionalism by the Villa certainly did not end here; staff member swearing at our guests, the GM Sam threatening to hit our best man, etc. Truly disappointed by the way they have chosen to conduct business and the lack of remorse and compassion demonstrated by the Villa by Nerval as a whole.