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Lydia
Lydia

Vancouver, British Columbia · From October 2017

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Happily married 🎉

June 30, 2019

452days 22hrs
Becky
How many days left till you're married!?
Becky, On June 10, 2019 at 15:54

I have 96 days left and counting ! I am so excited and just trying to do smaller items which seems to add up. What are you most excited about in the days left leading to your wedding? Whats something...

Amanda, tuesday 25-Jun-19 66
Danielle
Nails?!?
Danielle, On June 10, 2019 at 21:22

Looking for any tips. Wedding is a month away and anxiety is starting to brew. The problem is I chew my nails when anxious and even get to the point of peeling off skin (to the point they bleed)....

Danielle, wednesday 12-Jun-19 9
Sarah
diy decor - when to start?
Sarah, On May 19, 2019 at 13:47

Our wedding isn’t until August 2020 but I already want to start getting stuff and putting things together. Am I too early? Lol. How far ahead did you guys start making your decor?

Amanda, friday 24-May-19 28
Stephanie
Officiant
Stephanie, On April 30, 2019 at 14:55

Just wondering how much I should be budgeting for the officiant for our ceremony.

Bianca, tuesday 21-May-19 19
Joey
How many kids are on your guest list?
Joey, On April 25, 2019 at 08:04

Are you including kids at your wedding? How many kids are you inviting? What are the range of ages of your youngest guests? Are you having a special kids menu, or kids entertainment? How many children...

Meaghan, saturday 7-Sep-19 42
TeamDNA
rsvp Dates Past Due-no Response
TeamDNA, On April 18, 2019 at 13:51

So, our rsvp date has come and gone. Both of us have contacted a few guests that havent responded but FH doesnt want to contact everyone on his side (He says that they most likely arent coming as they...

Bianca, wednesday 29-May-19 17
Joey
Fiancé(e) Friday! Have you traveled abroad together?
Joey, On April 12, 2019 at 08:05

Are you two jet-setters, or homebodies? Do you love visiting new and far off places? Or is travel not your favorite pastime? Have you and your partner traveled abroad together before? Will you go...

Donna Yeung, monday 22-Apr-19 31
Joey
Who is going dress shopping with you?
Joey, On April 13, 2019 at 14:05

Who are you included in your 'say yes to the dress' crew? How many people will you bring with you when you try on wedding outfits? Who do you trust the most to give you the most honest opinions? Who...

Jo-Ann, saturday 20-Apr-19 19
Lydia
Another shoe post (bridesmaids advice)
Lydia, On April 11, 2019 at 16:12

So I was pretty much like "do whatever" when it comes to shoes but two of the three girls in my wedding party as one as one of their boyfriends and my FH said it's best to make the girl's shoes match....

Donna, thursday 2-May-19 16
A
Bridal Party Gift Ideas
Amber, On April 10, 2019 at 18:42

Hello all! So, I'm getting married in June, and I have hardly even thought about what in the world I am going to buy my bridesmaids for a gift. I do want to get them a gift, something special,...

Kelsey, monday 15-Apr-19 8
Jenn
Thoughts on a "standing" wedding ceremony?
Jenn, On April 6, 2019 at 21:03

Our ceremony venue is gorgeous but small. It is very wavy, curvy in shape. We were there earlier this week to troubleshoot how to set up the chairs, so that people can see past some of the larger...

Donna Yeung, tuesday 23-Apr-19 16
Lynnie
Show me your cake topper!
Lynnie, On April 5, 2019 at 13:05

Cake toppers are a really fun (and cheap) way to keep adding a personal touch to your wedding! Have you picked out your cake topper? Did you decide on a quote, figurines, flowers, or something else??...

Vinod, tuesday 9-Apr-19 13
Lynnie
Ceremony Exit Song?
Lynnie, On April 4, 2019 at 13:05

What song did you pick to play for the recessional, as you exit your ceremony as newlyweds?? What's your ceremony exit song? 🎵 Photo from Vancouver Officiant

Gabrielle, wednesday 10-Apr-19 23
Lynnie
Doing or Ditching: The Cake Cutting?
Lynnie, On April 1, 2019 at 09:05

The cake-cutting is a classic wedding tradition and standard photo opportunity! The symbolism is pretty sweet - it’s the first activity you do together as a couple, and feeding each other a small bite...

Vinod, tuesday 9-Apr-19 49
Lynnie
Doing or Ditching: Father escorting you down the aisle?
Lynnie, On April 1, 2019 at 09:05

Are you sticking with the tradition of having the bride's father walk her down the aisle? Are you mixing up this tradition to include another family member? Or are you completely changing it up and...

Amanda, tuesday 16-Apr-19 52
Lynnie
Doing or Ditching: The Bouquet Toss?
Lynnie, On April 1, 2019 at 09:05

Tossing the bouquet to the single ladies at your reception is a tradition that has been cooling off in recent years, but some people can’t imagine a wedding without it! Are you still tossing the...

Jordan, wednesday 22-Jan-20 46
Lynnie
Doing or Ditching: Registering for china?
Lynnie, On April 1, 2019 at 09:05

Fine china used to be the centerpiece of every wedding registry, with couples spending tons of time in-store picking out their favorite china pattern. But let’s be honest - who really uses fine china...

Allen, saturday 6-Apr-19 45
Lynnie
Doing or Ditching: Sleeping separately the night before the wedding?
Lynnie, On April 1, 2019 at 09:05

Traditionally, couples spent the night before the wedding sleeping in separate beds as a “last night alone” and so that you don’t wake up and see each other before the ceremony! What are your sleeping...

Anna, sunday 7-Apr-19 47
Joey
Pics or no pics in your Save the Date?
Joey, On March 30, 2019 at 14:05

What style of Save the Date are you using? Save The Dates with a photo? Save The Dates without a photo?

Megan, monday 1-Apr-19 26
Lynnie
Doing or Ditching: Bride standing on the left side?
Lynnie, On April 1, 2019 at 09:05

Traditionally, the bride stands on the left side of the altar for the wedding ceremony so that the groom can keep his sword arm free in case he needs to fight for his bride! Thankfully attempts at...

Candace, sunday 7-Apr-19 43
Lynnie
Are you ditching the veil?
Lynnie, On April 1, 2019 at 09:05

Are you going to wear a veil on your wedding day? Or are you ditching this tradition? Photo by Avenue Photo in Toronto Next Question: Will your father escort you down the aisle? Back to the Beginning:...

Candace, sunday 7-Apr-19 43
Lynnie
Doing or Ditching: Parent Dances?
Lynnie, On April 1, 2019 at 09:05

Are you doing the traditional father-daughter and mother-son dances at your wedding reception? Or are you trimming down the total number of reception traditions and cutting the parent dances? Are you...

Vinod, tuesday 9-Apr-19 45
Lynnie
Doing or Ditching: The Garter Toss?
Lynnie, On April 1, 2019 at 09:05

Are you going to toss the garter at your wedding reception or did this tradition not make the cut? Are you doing or ditching the garter toss? Photo by Jelger + Tanja Photography in Vancouver Next...

Nicole, thursday 18-Apr-19 55
Lynnie
Doing or Ditching: The traditional wedding party?
Lynnie, On April 1, 2019 at 09:05

Are you saying goodbye to the old traditional wedding party and mixing it up with uneven sides, two MOHs (or none), or skipping the flower girl and ring bearer? Will you have a man of honor instead of...

Allen, saturday 6-Apr-19 31
Robyn
What's your favourite diy so far?
Robyn, On March 25, 2019 at 15:12

Hi everyone! I've just passed the 3-month mark so I'm about to get serious with the DIYs. I am planning on doing my own favours (wildflower seed packets) and a "just married" sign for the car, and now...

Allison, saturday 30-Mar-19 45
Candace
Bridesmaids Dresses
Candace, On March 25, 2019 at 18:16

How did you decide on your bridesmaids dresses? Did you get all the girls together to go shopping or did they go on their own? Are they all wearing matching dresses? Post some inspiration pics below! ...

Deziray, saturday 20-Apr-19 31
Joey
A Few Of Our Favourite Things - Vacation Spot
Joey, On March 25, 2019 at 08:05

What has been your favourite vacation destination? What do you love about it? Will you be revisiting it for your honeymoon? Where do you and your boo like to go for vacation? Photo by Reverie Studios...

Kassandra, sunday 7-Apr-19 35
Joey
A Few Of Our Favourite Things - Games
Joey, On March 25, 2019 at 08:05

What games do you and your very favourite Player 2 most like to play together? Are you board gamers, card players, or video gamers? What's your game of choice when you play together? Photo by...

BunnyBride, saturday 7-Sep-19 34
Lynnie
What are you giving as a wedding favour?
Lynnie, On March 22, 2019 at 13:05

Have you decided on your wedding favours? Are you going with something edible or a personalized keepsake? Photo from Efflorescence Events in Laval, Quebec

Mahsa, monday 2-Dec-19 43
Lynnie
Fill In The Blank: I wish _____ wasn't so expensive!
Lynnie, On March 18, 2019 at 09:05

Fill in the blank! Which wedding cost has been driving you crazy? Is it a big ticket item like photography or flowers, or decor upgrade like chiavari chairs you wish was cheaper?? Next Question: I...

Kathleen, thursday 16-May-19 41
Courtney
Day of Help
Courtney, On March 18, 2019 at 17:04

Hi community! My fiancé and I are having our wedding at a restaurant in May (in Vancouver). The staff should be quite helpful in running the wedding so we were told we wouldn't need a wedding...

Vinod, saturday 30-Mar-19 8