What's your love language?

He really needs words and touch and I'm more the quality time or acts of service type. That difference is actually the source of like 95% of our fights.

We're both touch. I'm also quality time and his other is words of affirmation.

He is definitely physical I'm more acts of service

I’m definitely giving gifts and words of affirmation, whereas he is more physical touch! we balance each other out nicely

Amazingly, we are both a combination of each one. If anything feels like it's not fully there we talk to each other and it pretty much works it's way out. We both hope for everything out of each other, and it really is awesome!

I guess quality time, gifts and physical touch for us!!

We both are physical touch. However, I am quality time all the way and he is gift giving.

We show our love language by our interests and disagreements. There is always a compromise in between the two and settle to find a solution.

I'm Quality time and he's acts of service. Both of us are also physical touch as a secondary one.

I’ma tough and time person whereas my fw is a word and time person

My love language is quality time. Like this is me:

Mine is acts of service and I would say his is touch.


He gives great hugs ❤️

Love the 5 Love Languages - such a valuable thing to know about each other.

Mine is Quality Time and his is Physical Touch. We went through a bit of a difficult stint this past late fall/early winter - and so we used the love languages to challenge our situation and get back on track. It was so good!

Mine is acts of service and FH's is words of affirmation. Quality time is both of our second language

Mainly just physical touch and what we do for each other. In the beginning it was gifts and all that stuff. Now we would rather spend our money on other things

I am all about physical touch and quality time!

Acts of service is a big one for him, as well as physical touch

My FH is probably more a physical touch person - and I'm more a mix of things? Affirmation/gifts, etc. We complement each other pretty well though.

I don't care for "love languages"... we just complete each other and you are to put each other before yourself. If they need/want something - do it. If you see something at a store that reminds you of them or you know they will like it - buy it. Wake up first? Make breakfast. They do anything for you - remind them just how much you love and appreciate them. It's not hard.

Ooh I love love languages! I think that they are so important!

My FH and I are both primarily physical touch people. Actually, when I take the test, I score the highest possible score for PT that you can! After that, Words of Affirmation are definitely my secondary language, and Quality Time would probably be my FH's.

Knowing that we are both PT people is so important, because I physically could not have romantic relationships with people who aren't primarily or secondarily Physical Touch, it's just too big a factor for me! But I love being with someone who loves PT as much as I do. It's great to know that my FH will intuit when I want to be held and hugged and kissed because he would want the same thing for himself, and vice versa. While I definitely don't think it's necessary for people to have the same love language to be in romantic relationships, it's super important to understand your partner's!