Hi! Me and my FH have been kind of at odds over what to do for our vows. Neither of us have been to very many weddings so we are a little confused with how the vows go. Do you do "till death do us part" and write your own vows? Or is it an either or kind of thing? I would love to write our own vows but what do we take out in the ceremony to insert our written vows? Help!