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True or False? - I wish I had more help planning

Joey, on December 3, 2018 at 08:05 Posted in Plan a wedding 0 34

Do you wish you had more support while you plan this wedding, that you could delegate some of the more unpleasant tasks to someone else? Or do you wish you had less help so you could get on with planning things in your own way, in your own time?

True or False? - I wish I had more help planning

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34 Comments

Latest activity by Steph, on September 11, 2019 at 01:41
  • Steph
    Expert June 2022 Ontario
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    False, my mom and fiancé and I are really loving it
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  • Andrea
    Devoted January 2021 Ontario
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    I would say semi true. I wish I had support from a person I considered a really good friend at one point of time. But then I think about the vision I want for my wedding. And I realize that.. it's best to do it ourselves, just me and my FH.

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  • Candace
    VIP May 2019 Ontario
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    I'm torn. There are some tasks that I would have loved to delegate to someone else but other ones that I wanted to plan by myself.

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  • Amanda
    Frequent user September 2021 Ontario
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    False - I am a planner no matter what the occasion. However I have really great friends that have helped me so much! #grateful

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  • Geneviève
    VIP September 2020 Ontario
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    False, my fiancee and I are planners and we think most the exact same way. I get irritable when too many people try to offer opinions and inject themselves.

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  • Kaisha
    Super March 2019 Nova Scotia
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    True and False, I don't really need help with the planning aspect but it would be nice if my mom and sister lived closer so they could see everything I am referring too.

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  • Brittany
    British Columbia
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    False - I'm a Type A control freak, and even when I ask for help I usually correct them Smiley atonished ... my mom is so much like me though, I love her help. She lives on Vancouver Island though, so it's kind of good, we don't see each other too often, so she doesn't get overloaded with wedding chores, and is more willing to do big projects with me when she visits.

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  • Emily
    Devoted February 2020 Ontario
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    False - I prefer to do everything myself..

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  • Vinod
    Top August 2017 Ontario
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    False.
    I had everything under control and did my research for the most part. The vendors ubderstood our needs and payments.
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  • Jennifer
    Super July 2019 Ontario
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    False. i'm enjoying planning. just wish there was more money help. and got more of a response from FH on things (hes so laid back...hes rolling with it).

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  • Kelsie
    Master July 2021 Ontario
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    Yes and no. On decor related things, yes. I’m not creative at all and find it the most difficult part of the planning process.
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  • Alexandra
    VIP November 2019 British Columbia
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    False- I have more people offering to help than I really need lol! There’s not enough to do just yet!
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  • Donna
    Devoted July 2019 Ontario
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    I really have not had alot of help planning my wedding, the help I did receive was awesome

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  • Bianca
    Master August 2019 Ontario
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    False. I honestly love planning solo, but I just wish I had more time to plan.

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  • Robyn
    Super June 2019 Ontario
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    False. I wish I had LESS help. Too many chefs right now.

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  • Emily
    Devoted October 2018 Ontario
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    False. We really didn’t have much help aside from setup and tear down and I was happy for that!! Less opinions and drama.
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  • K
    Expert June 2019 Ontario
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    False. I've had help when and where it was needed.
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  • Holly
    VIP June 2019 Ontario
    Holly ·
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    True and false... I'd love the extra help on some things but I also love doing it all myself..
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  • Tori
    Top October 2019 Manitoba
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    True and False. I want more help - but I would need people to do it my way the first time around which is basically impossible! So as much as I would, it would end up being more work in the end if I had to redo anything that somebody were to help with.

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  • Allison
    Master October 2019 Ontario
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    False! More people = more opinions! Now if I had a robot army that didn't have opinions that would be great lol jk!

    My FH isn't too involved either, but he's there to bounce ideas off of.

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  • Jennifer
    Super July 2019 Ontario
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    HAHHAHA

    Mack's strong opinions have been that we have the same number of BM's and groomsmen on each side. it had to be 4. and that there is Caesar salad as our salad (his fav). that's it. hahhaha

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  • Michelle
    Expert April 2019 Alberta
    Michelle ·
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    False, sometimes I wish my FH was more involved, but he works a ton. I can handle it though! So far...

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  • Stephanie
    Master July 2018 Alberta
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    False. I had enough help. I was very happy that I could delegate!
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  • Casey
    Master October 2019 Ontario
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    True. My Dad and Step Mom have been great helping me plan! FH just wants to show up lol, but he is picking out all the colours etc for the guys.

    I wish my sister was closer to help me plan (She is in Australia), but she is great at listening to all my rants etc.

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  • Erin
    Super September 2019 Ontario
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    The only thing he's had any strong opinion on so far is that he ABSOLUTELY DOES NOT WANT the bridesmaids to wear jumpsuits. Hahaha.

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  • Jennifer
    Super July 2019 Ontario
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    HAHAHAHA!!!! right?

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  • Jennifer
    Super July 2019 Ontario
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    Riigghhttt! I wish this too. he likes to know whats happening. but when I ask an opinion "doesn't matter to me"

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  • Caitlyn
    Super January 2020 Ontario
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    False-I have a clear picture of what I want and the more people who try to help the more opinions you hear and then the more self-conscious I feel about my vision for the day

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  • Chelsea
    Super June 2020 Alberta
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    False - the people I have chosen to ask questions and opinions from have been great, but I like being able to just do what I want
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  • Valérie
    VIP September 2019 Quebec
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    False - I wish it was in the same city that we live in, or close. Long distance planning isn't fun.

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  • Erin
    Super September 2019 Ontario
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    I'm pretty happy with the amount of support I have. I can do things on my own or reach out for help if needed. The ONLY thing I wish is that my fiance cared about things more. Anytime I ask for his opinion he says he doesn't care. I just want him to be a LITTLE more involved, but I'm not stressing too much about it.

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  • Leah
    VIP April 2019 British Columbia
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    False!
    We have a really great coordinator so we’re good.

    Now, a bigger budget? Yes.

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