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Lynnie
WeddingWire Admin October 2016 North Carolina

Traditional or Twist: Parent Dances?

Lynnie, on February 17, 2020 at 09:05 Posted in Wedding reception 0 26

Is the father-daughter or mother-son spotlight dance a reception ritual you can't live without? Or are you finding a different way to share a special moment with your parents on the wedding day?

Will you do the traditional parent dances? Or are you adding your own twist?



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Latest activity by Francesca, on March 12, 2020 at 08:18
  • Francesca
    Frequent user November 2020 Ontario
    Francesca ·
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    Traditional! I will be dancing with my Step Father whom I am technically his only daughter so I want to give him that special moment.

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  • Laura
    Devoted June 2022 Ontario
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    We'll do the traditional dances here - my FH grew up with just a mom so this is definitely a moment to honour her.

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  • BunnyBride
    Super August 2334 Nova Scotia
    BunnyBride ·
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    We are doing the traditional dances. I guess our twist was a bit in the planning though....we didn't make this decision; we left it completely up to the parents in question whether it was a go ahead or no go. Everyone wanted to do it, so now it's figuring out the songs!

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  • BunnyBride
    Super August 2334 Nova Scotia
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    That's an awesome idea. It's also very symbolic you are all one family nowSmiley heart

    Sorry to hear about your dad though

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  • K
    Frequent user October 2020 Ontario
    Kara ·
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    Well- we will be having the “traditional” dances, except I will be dancing with my (future) father in law instead. He is giving me away as well. My dad passed away 6 months ago, so, this is a nice compromise.
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  • Chelsea
    Super June 2020 Alberta
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    I think we will be doing these, i’m not too bothered either way
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  • Stefanie
    Devoted August 2020 Saskatchewan
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    We are doing the traditional parent dances as well. Mine will be a slow song with my father, but my FH is going to be two-stepping with his mom for their dance.

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  • Steph
    Expert June 2022 Ontario
    Steph ·
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    It'll be a twist of some kind, my mom is pretty much both parents for me so I'm likely doing a dance with her. My FH's family is back home and we domt know if they'll come, even if they do it's an odd dynamic so he might dance with my grandma.
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  • Veronica
    Super October 2021 Alberta
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    Traditional parent dances here!

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  • Vinod
    Top August 2017 Ontario
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    Traditional as we had Mother/Sons dance.

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  • Tori
    Top October 2019 Manitoba
    Tori ·
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    We are both luck enough to be able to have had the traditional parent dances - Mother & Son and the Father & Daughter dance.

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  • Michelle
    Expert October 2021 Nova Scotia
    Michelle ·
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    I'm going to dance with my mom, my dad is pretty against dancing haha.

    My FH will be doing a mother-son dance and possibly also a special dance with his grandmother

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  • Casey
    Master October 2019 Ontario
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    We stuck with the traditional dances

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  • A
    Devoted July 2023 British Columbia
    Amanda ·
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    We will be doing the traditional dances.

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  • Elizabeth
    Frequent user August 2022 Alberta
    Elizabeth ·
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    We will certainly be doing the solo dances with our parents! My FH is the only son of 4 children so his mom has been waiting for this for forever and I’m the first born of my family so my dad is also looking forward to that moment!
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  • VicGin
    Beginner August 2020 British Columbia
    VicGin ·
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    We are doing the dances, but at the same time as my FH didn't want to do it ''solo'' with his Mom. Now we are trying to pick a song that all four of us like, it's going to be interesting.

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  • Stephanie
    Master July 2018 Alberta
    Stephanie ·
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    We did it at the same time- parent/child dance. Neither my dad nor I like attention so we were happy to share the dance floor with my husband and his mom
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  • Kelsie
    Master July 2021 Ontario
    Kelsie ·
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    Yes, we’ll be doing the traditional dances.
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  • Caitlyn
    Super January 2020 Ontario
    Caitlyn ·
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    We did the father/daughter and mother/son dances
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  • K
    Curious August 2021 Ontario
    Katherine ·
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    We're doing the parent dances. As a kid, my dad used to dance with me to the song "Butterfly Kisses", so we'll probably use that song. So many good memories Smiley smile My FH will also have a mother-son dance

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  • Natasha
    Devoted May 2021 Ontario
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    Skipping all of this. FH’s mom is the only one who has a problem with it but neither of us want to.
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  • Rayanne
    Master June 2022 Ontario
    Rayanne ·
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    We are not doing parent dances. His mom has some mobility issues and would not appreciate being the center of attention. I am not inviting my father to the wedding at all.
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  • Samantha
    Super June 2021 Ontario
    Samantha ·
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    We're doing parent dances. I have one photo of me and my dad dancing at my 8th grade graduation, and it's my favourite photo of us. So I'd like an updated version of it. Then of course FH will also have one with his mom
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  • Amelia
    Master October 2020 New Brunswick
    Amelia ·
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    I decided to keep the dance but skip the scheduled part. The song for my dad and I (My Girl) will be part of our playlist so I can ask him to join me and out other guests with a little less spotlight on us.
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  • Geneviève
    VIP September 2020 Ontario
    Geneviève ·
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    We’re skipping dancing altogether
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  • A
    Super September 2020 Ontario
    Amelia ·
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    We're doing parent dances. I know my dad is looking forward to it and I'm not sure if FH's mom remembers, but she'll be excited about it too once he brings it up to her.

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