Doing or Ditching: The Garter Toss?

Ditched! Kind of awkward

Ditching!!! It’s in past now.

Ditching! 😂 not my style

Ditched unless it was going to go fully out for the reaching.

Ditching for sure! My dress is too big, he won't find it!

Ditching. This is another one I've never liked.

Ditching. Not comfortable with it and it’s embarrassing so no lol

Ditching. Neither me or my FH are super comfortable with the idea (or like the family attending would be either...especially where there could be kids ranging for 2-12 years old).

Doing. My fiancé was very excited to find a Toronto Maple Leaf garter and asked if it would be my something blue.

Ditching. Don't care for it - and I felt so embarrassed when I needed ( and being called out) to participate in this at weddings. Don't want to subject the few single people in my guest list to it.

Ditching, I actually forgot to wear mine

Ditching, I don't even want to wear one lol

Ditching. I will wear one but I'm keeping it on

Ditching this one, my fiance would have a heart attack!

Ditching it! Our wedding is 80% family and I'm not even sure any of the guys there that arnt my cousins will be single.... Ya

Ditching. It's awkward.

I absolutely hate the garter toss so definitely not.

View quoted message This might be how we approach it too. I have a tea length dress so if he goes into my dress I may be showing off way too much! I may just wear it low so he can just grab it with his hands but I also just may have it set aside for him, I'm sure the day of I'll make the decision lol

View quoted message I agree with your opinion of ditching too!
But if it’s something your FH wants to do then, if you don’t already know, single is anyone not married. We had the same concern with our bouquet toss as most of our guests are in relationships/engaged but our DJ told us that anyone not officially married participates - which I think is still fun

Ditching it!

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Same girl, we are ditching it too.

We are doing the toss (I bought a second garter specifically for this) but we are not doing the hunt to go get it. We are both very uncomfortable with the idea of him having to climb under the dress. Not our cup of tea. So after I throw the bridal bouquet, we will hand him the garter and call up the men. Plus it saves time woohoo!

Ditching for sure. Our guest list is primarily family, and neither one of us feel comfortable having them watch him go up my dress.

My dress is also a weeeee bit tight to be doing that.

No way!
This is also not a thing where we're from so Im not sure how half of our guests would take it, but my actual reason for not doing it is just that I'm absolutely not comfortable with it haha

Not sure yet! I’m kind of on the French but leaning more towards no because my family is way too conservative and will feel offended if we do it LOL. But FH wants to do so I might just say, LETS DO IT!

Doing!! FH wanted to so I'm in!

Ditching, my FMIL said she was going to make me a garter out of one of my FH's dad's ties, his dad recently passed away so it will just be for us and not to share.

I haven't decided quite yet.. I really want to keep my garter and I will probably feel super awkward having everyone watch us LOL

We are unsure of this one. Will leave it up to my FH. I am unsure how hes going to get up there to get it with my dress lol. But it is 100% his decision

Ditching- it is kind of creepy honestly

Ditching! I'm way too modest for our gramma's to watch!

I'm unsure. I think it may be a bit awkward, but i think I'll leave it up to whatever FH wants to do.