Dad and Step-dad dance??

I think both options work but if you really want to highlight each of them individually then I would do 2 separate songs.

View quoted message I was thinking of having them both walk me down and then dance with both just because then I dont have to deal with any discussions of fairness

I’m in the same boat as you. My step father raised me. I am having him walk me down the isle and I’ve picked a song for him and i but nothing for my father I only want to include him so I don’t upset my family. It’s just not worth the argument. I don’t know what I want to do it’s a hard decision

I would go with what you want, but from my experience with dance and instructing unless you are all have some experience dancing already, the smoother transition will be with two songs. The switch off point will be easier to find.

My dad and step dad are walking me down the aisle but the bride and father dance I’m letting my dad have.

You can 2 dances since it matters to you. Choose the way you want to do it. Choose 2 songs and get it done so which father dances first and then switch up to the next father to the second song. Arrange the timing and when to step in for the smooth transition.

This might be something to talk to your mom about?

I was MOH for my best friend and she had a very similar situation. She opted for the one dance with her biological father, but I think there is nothing wrong with having one with each, if that is what you want.

Originally i was going to do that, half with my dad first while my FH dances with his Mom, then we would switch half way, he would dance with my mom and i would dance with my step dad. (his dad is in no condition to dance, so likely wont be insulted that i didn't dance with him)

Im still not sure if thats the route i want to go with it, as there are some family issues i think id rather keep out of the wedding for my sake of mind. I might come to a decision a week or so before.

You could do both. It's your wedding so you can choose what's best for you. I'm doing 2 songs for mine. 1 for me and my mom and the other for me and my fiance's dad. During those two songs my fiance will be dancing wit his mom and then the second song he will be dancing with my mom. Not traditional but that's okay

Why don't you have one walk you down the aisle and the other do the father daughter dance. A friend of mine did that and neither one felt less then the other. Good luck.