So I’m having an issue with one of my bridesmaids. I bought my wedding dress mid- August and made our bridesmaid apt a few days later. The appointment is for this Saturday and one of my girls has all of a sudden decided she is terrified of covid. I understand the fear, but my issue and frustration come from the fact that the appointment was made almost a month ago and she’s just decided this is a problem for her now. She told me she is not afraid to go to the store but she doesn’t want to be near myself or the rest of my girls... so the big problem here is she doesn’t drive.
Our appointment is in another city and I have already made arrangements to have another girl pick her up and drive her home, which in my opinion shouldn’t be up to me to have to do figure out for her. So her issue is being in the car with us, so I said get your boyfriend to drive you, well he can’t because he works that day. I have no other suggestions to give her. I have figured out transportation for you and you don’t like it, this is no longer my problem.
I can’t stop stressing about it because she is debating if she even wants to come. I’ve tried telling her that whether we go Saturday or we go next month covid is still going to be a thing. She is not going without me, because I obviously need to say if I like the dress or not. She’s also even said to me “I’m not sure your wedding will even happen.” Obviously not something you should be saying to the bride.
I have talked to my MOH and she said she’ll send everyone a message basically saying leave your negative opinions to yourself. But I’m not convinced that will stop her.
This was a super long post, I basically wrote this just to vent. Advice is welcome.