So my wedding is over 2 years from now, its May 30th 2020, so I am in no rush to pick my bridesmaids but friends and family keep asking who Im going to have and why I havent announced it yet. I am a triplet and we are all girls so I told my sisters that they will obviously be Co-MOHs for me and my Fiance's Sister and I are close so I want her standing with me as well. Then I have one close friend that I call my low matience bff because we can pick up where we left off no matter how long its been since we last hung out- so she will obvi be included as well.
My question is the other 3 girls that I'm considering for my bridal party are all relatively new/ complicated friends. One is a girlfriend of one of my fiance's groomsmen, Shes awesome and I love her to death but it worries me about picking her as her and her bf have only been together for a year and 2 years is a long time to just assume they will still be together. Another friend I'm considering is fabulous! and would really balance out my girls but we've only known each other for less then a year, and as much as we've hit it off, I hope I will still be in these girls lives long after my wedding. The last girl I'm considering is a long time friend who I met when she was dating my Fainces best friend and Best man. They went through a nasty breakup last year but her and I have continued to try and stay close and we were doing great until she announced she was moving out west for atleast a year. My engagement has definitley brought us closer but her heading to two timezones away for the forseeable future makes me question how close we will continue to be, plus the history with her and the best man (which is better then i was) still can be quite awkward.
Now i know who i put in my bridal party is up to me ultimately because you ladies dont know my relationships with these girls. BUT my questions are 1: with my wedding date being so far away when should I pick my ladies officially?? Also did anyone pick someone or not pick someone and have any advice on what I should be focused on when considering who stands with me??
Any bridesmaid advice is super appreciated!!!