Hello everyone! I recently got engaged last week and I am beyond excited. This is the first relationship I've been in where I haven't been treated like garbage. It was absolutely perfect I had no idea was going to happen and I'm so excited that it did. That being said, my best friend is mad about the whole situation. My fiance chose to go get the ring by himself with one of his friends and it's beautiful. She's mad because she wasn't involved, she's mad because he wasn't there when he proposed, she's not because she didn't have a say in the ring, and she's mad because someone else came to take pictures. The first thing she said to me instead of "congratulations" was "wow glad I wasnt even asked or involved at all" ... I'm sorry but this made me super upset. Then she proceeded to ask me where he got the ring and if it was expensive and that it better be. First of all I would have been happy with a stone out of my driveway for a ring. I am not the type of person who has to have a 10 thousand dollar ring .... he got it from peoples and it was way more then I would have liked him to spend but its perfect and I love it so much.... she told me it's probably fake because she didnt go with him to pick it and blah blah blah ... I'm just ranting at this point ... needless to say ... shes mad ... we havent talked and I dont believe this is how a "best friend" is supposed to treat you at any point in your life ... let alone one of the best times ever. I'm upset and quite frankly I dont want her involved at all now. Shes going away in December to see one of her friends in a different province and that's when I plan to have the engagement party. And all I can say is oh well .... I am done with it and she also doesnt get along with ANY of my other friends that I want to stand beside me .... so what I'm asking is ... do you think I should involve her because weve been friends for 10 years .... or just invite her to the wedding when it happens and not stress about her.