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Kayden
lgbt Wedding
Kayden, On August 18, 2018 at 11:45

Is anyone out there planning a gay / queer / trans / LGBT wedding? My partner and I are starting on the planning stages, and because there's so little info out there, we're basically making it up as...

Harmony, tuesday 27-Jun-23 19 391
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Fake flowers, yay or nay?
Meghan, On November 16, 2020 at 14:31

So my fiancee is allergic to life in general, but pollen is one allergic that really gets him. He said he would deal with real flowers, but I want him to be comfortable, and not sneezing...

Elena18, tuesday 27-Jun-23 13 358
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Cost of Flowers and Decor?
Bea, On May 30, 2023 at 21:24

How much did you spend on flowers and decor? Bonus if you’re getting married in Banff Alberta. Fiancé and I have budgeted $4000 for a 40 person wedding. I know that chair covers, charger...

Bea, sunday 25-Jun-23 22 169
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Planning wedding
Mary, On June 21, 2023 at 10:19

Hi Everyone! I'm planning our wedding and a baptism for our son this October, while family is down to celebrate with us. I'm a little stressed as I don't know where to start with not a very big...

Carine, thursday 22-Jun-23 4 42
Kate
Did you have any declines to your wedding?
Kate, On June 19, 2023 at 14:49

Hello all : ) Let's talk numbers! It's obviously a huge help to know what you are looking at for confirmed guests for planning purposes. That being said, curious to know, out of your total number of...

Kate, wednesday 21-Jun-23 20 128
Brittany
Honeymoon Plans!
Brittany, On June 12, 2023 at 15:54

Hi Everyone! Recently, my fiancé and I decided to book a mini honeymoon! We are unsure where we want to go and we both get pretty busy in the fall so we are going to book out actual honeymoon in 2024....

Alice, wednesday 21-Jun-23 22 191
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Gift for husband to be
Cc, On September 1, 2022 at 12:40

What are some ideas for a gift for husband morning of wedding other than cuff links lol

Alice, sunday 18-Jun-23 8 173
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All inclusive resort wedding suggestions
Busy, On June 12, 2023 at 13:36

I want to hear your suggestion of all inclusive wedding down south to get married to. Mostly anything except Mexico (the requirements to make it legals are too complicated). We do have 3 kids to...

Mila, tuesday 13-Jun-23 2 40
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Telephone Guest book for Wedding
Debbie, On June 8, 2023 at 06:06

I’m looking for a company that does the new trend of having an old fashion Telephone to record messages for the Married couple at their wedding as the guest book.

Alejandra, saturday 10-Jun-23 4 38 1
Brittany
Brides of 2023! How Are we Feeling?
Brittany, On June 5, 2023 at 18:04

Hi Everyone! Wedding season of 2023 is in full swing and I was wondering how you are all doing? How many days till your wedding? Ours is 73 days away and I am getting so excited! We just finished...

KELLY, friday 9-Jun-23 17 112
Kate
What compromise have you/are you willing to make for your big day?
Kate, On June 1, 2023 at 08:29

Hi all We all know life is full of compromises and sometimes to have things work out this is just what is needed however, when it comes to your special day, does it get a free pass or do you/did you...

Kate, monday 5-Jun-23 7 76
Sadie
How many Guests will stay the night?
Sadie, On June 3, 2023 at 13:10

Hi everyone, Needing some help or advice or opinions... We are hoping to host 120 guests at a family resort for our wedding. Only con is, we are required to book 30 rooms for both Friday and Saturday...

Hank, sunday 4-Jun-23 2 49
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Catering quotes
Jessica, On May 28, 2023 at 12:38

Hi everyone, I’m curious to know what the average cost for a plated service should be? We have about 200 guests and we were quoted 45k from one company in Ottawa which I thought was insane...

Carine, tuesday 30-May-23 7 83
Katrina
When to send out invitations? Ceremony & Reception
Katrina, On May 24, 2023 at 13:36

Hi community! I am getting married next year June 1st 2024.I overheard that it’s best to send out the invitations (ceremony and reception) 6 months ahead. So January 2024? However .. I will be having...

Marie-france, monday 29-May-23 10 215
Shamick
How to find a photographer + videographer
Shamick, On May 9, 2023 at 12:53

Hello!! I’ve started my search for a photographer + videographer but I am running into some trouble easily searching for providers that offer both. I feel like searching for one or the other is...

Joy, saturday 27-May-23 5 69
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Wedding Invitations
Denise, On March 27, 2023 at 22:31

I wanted to ask how many months in advance are you ordering your invitations? Staples, Vista Print, Shutterfly etc. Anywhere else Brides/Grooms are ordering from??

Joy, saturday 27-May-23 19 132
Stevie
Feeling the Pressure
Stevie, On April 2, 2023 at 14:15

Is anyone else really feeling the pressure right now? I don’t know why but I feel like no matter what choices I make I’m going to feel somewhat disappointed on my wedding day. Either I’ll regret my...

Joy, saturday 27-May-23 13 193 2
Trisha
Photographer
Trisha, On May 5, 2023 at 09:17

Hey ladies! Just a quick question. I’m curious as to how much you are paying for your photographer. Currently mine is booked for 6 hrs @ $3000. Is this insane or close to normal? TIA! 😊

Jen, friday 26-May-23 29 572
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Should i explain the bar situation?
Julie, On May 6, 2023 at 14:49

For our reception, we aren't having an entirely open bar. Guests will get 1 welcome cocktail, a half bottle of wine per person with dinner, and then we've budgeted for 4 drinks per person after. We...

Kate, wednesday 24-May-23 8 95
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Logistics?
Julie, On May 16, 2023 at 18:03

I'm trying to figure out the logistics of getting ready... My venue is a restaurant with halls, so they don't have a bridal suite, but the coordinator said that there are offices we can wait in so...

Jackie, monday 22-May-23 6 49 1
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Cake topper
Angela, On May 15, 2023 at 20:06

We are doing our first initials for our cake topper but unsure if we should do AB or BA ( Ben ans Ange ) Help !

Angela, wednesday 17-May-23 7 44
Brittany
Big Weekend of Wedding Stuff!
Brittany, On May 2, 2023 at 22:37

Hey everyone! I just had a wonderful weekend full of all things wedding and it has got me so excited for the upcoming 3 and a half months till my wedding! On Thursday my wedding welcome sign came in...

Carine, tuesday 9-May-23 14 124 1
Alison
Cancelling Vendor - Do i Need to Pay Remaining Balance??
Alison, On April 28, 2023 at 16:01

Hi everyone! I’m looking for advice/reassurance. I booked a hair & makeup artist for my wedding & paid the deposit to reserve the date. She’s been super unresponsive & I found a cheaper...

MoBoNYC, tuesday 2-May-23 6 138
Kate
Wedding Planning/after hosting your own wedding - what have you learned ?
Kate, On April 26, 2023 at 09:07

Hello all ! Thought I would spark up a discussion regarding appreciation and things you have learned throughout the wedding planning process. Sometimes it takes putting ourselves in someone else's...

Kate, saturday 29-Apr-23 8 85
Alex
Chefs Delight
Alex, On January 23, 2019 at 20:25

Question for all you brides! Anyone have experience with CHEF’S DELIGHT? My fiancée and I went to a bridal show last week and won a culinary demonstration with Chefs Delight. They say we get a bridal...

Petrina, wednesday 26-Apr-23 41 15,356
Julie
The Countdown is on!
Julie, On April 21, 2023 at 12:00

We are 2 weeks away from our big day! Super excited! I went into serious crunch mode over the past week and now everything is done! Now I have no idea what to do with myself I do feel like i'm...

Julie, tuesday 25-Apr-23 12 106
Amanda
First Look or Wait Until You Walk Down The Aisle?!
Amanda, On April 19, 2023 at 11:29

Are you doing a "first look" and taking pictures before your wedding ceremony? Or are you waiting until you walk down the aisle?! Some couples want to save that magic moment for the ceremony, but...

Julie, saturday 22-Apr-23 20 130 2
Kate
Helpful list of some common regrets from a brides point of view
Kate, On April 19, 2023 at 21:36

Hi all, I found some of these points online and I thought it would be helpful to share in case you are having any of these concerns, you are not alone , also stuff to be extra mindful of (For me, #2...

Julie, friday 21-Apr-23 7 103
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Question
Nina, On April 7, 2023 at 14:54

Hey all! Planning on having our wedding during February 2024. Does anyone have a rough idea of what plates will cost?

Jennifer, friday 21-Apr-23 6 64
SIMONA
Hashtag Help Please!
SIMONA, On April 19, 2023 at 17:09

I need help thinking of a hashtag. My name is Simona Shafir and my fiance is Jurgen Skenderi. Looking for a cute/funny hashtag. The wedding date Is July 13, 2023. Thank you

Kate, wednesday 19-Apr-23 2 38
Marie
Wedding with a tight budget
Marie, On September 5, 2022 at 16:52

Hi. I just want to ask to those who had their wedding this year, how much was your estimated costs? Also, can you share who your suppliers are? I'm having a hard time choosing a venue here in Calgary...

Alice, wednesday 19-Apr-23 14 254
Fung
Best option/website for Rsvp?
Fung, On April 10, 2023 at 19:06

Hi All, I created my own 'save the dates' and sent a while ago and now I'm trying to figure out the best option for RSVP's. Created a guest list on withjoy and realised I need everyones email...

Jasmine, thursday 13-Apr-23 3 67 1

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